Monday, July 21, 2008

A Commitment To Myself


A few weeks ago, I was riding in my car with my friend Bob who recently divorced his wife of over 20 yrs.  He and I have been comparing notes a lot and helping each other realize some pretty obvious shit to everyone except ourselves :)  Anyway, I mentioned to him that I was not really looking to meet anyone right now because I just didn't feel like I was ready.  So he said, "Well, take down your ads then."  I've been thinking about that ever since.  Today I decided to follow through on it.  I had ads up on all the major bear sites and they're all gone.  My reasoning is that I want to fall in love with me first and that requires me to be faithful to me.  Deleting those ads is an important step in that process.  When I'm ready, I'll know it and so will the universe and things will happen as they are intended to.

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